When people say "Don't contact me", that generally means "Don't contact me." In my experience, making contact for something like what I consider a newsworthy issue (yeah, I thought for sure that would hit the magic button and they'd really care), it didn't go over well. Usually I got, "I'm sorry, but you can't just think I'm going to do xyz because of this. I really cant do this anymore." If I even got that many words out of them. She said dont contact her. The least you can do is respect her wishes instead of being passive-aggressive and probably just ticking her off.