Should I Tell STBXAW About Health Issue?
My STBXAH and I have not spoken more than a couple words to each other since May. Our divorce is pending - the only thing that needs to happen is for her to sign the papers, though it's been several weeks since we signed the term sheet and it's not really clear what she is waiting for. I had surgery yesterday to remove a cancerous growth. I haven't told her about the health issue, or anything, because she said through her lawyer back in August that she doesn't want to talk (I had reached out to see how she was doing). I would want to know if she had a serious health issue (in addition to her CD issues, which are serious and mostly untreated). I'm not sure what I expect if I were to tell her - probably just an email saying to take care. As with most things involving divorcing from my active AW, it isn't clear to me what to do in this situation.