Hi LynnRae,
It seems like a lot of these stories are the same. Like you I would be upset over these incidents and then he would accuse me of having resentments. If I ever tried to argue back, then *I* would be the one who was accused of having the problems.
I rarely, if ever, started an argument and was always walking around on eggshells, wondering what I would do to upset him. That's no way to live.
It's all so maddening. I also have no self esteem and confidence but I'm going to counseling and that seems to be helping me.
