Originally Posted by
suki44883 
Because that is just human nature. A non-alcoholic can't understand how a substance, or lack thereof, can cause a person to change into such a raging, unreasonable, abusive person. It doesn't matter how many times someone tells you it isn't personal, you are living with it and it sure does feel personal.
I'm glad you are learning that it really had nothing at all to do with you.
Thanks!
Well, I always wondered why the tirades seemed to happen even when he was sober but he often remarked upon needing a drink just to calm down. Yeah, I am really learning a lot from hanging out here, lol!