Blueskies,........OMG!......threatening to leave, huh?.......he has just shown you his hand...Big time.
This is proof of how he knows where your buttons are!!! He knows where he can hurt you (if he needs to). It is vital for the alcoholic to know where our buttons are---as they can be used for purposes of m manipulation when the going gets tough for them. They need to use our fears and guilt against us if we should try to stop enabling them.
Helpful tip: Please put this info. into your memory bank for the next time your fear or guilt raises it's head.
He sure wouldn't make a good poker player!:rotfxko
dandylion