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Old 10-05-2012, 08:19 AM
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Freedom1990
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Originally Posted by BlueSkiesAgain View Post
Thanks everyone for the encouragement. After last night I will have one new boundary. I will not allow someone to live in my house that keeps threatening to move out. The door hasn't moved just be sure to close it behind you.

I actually slept well last night. One day at a time.
When my youngest daughter was getting ready to come home after 16 months in the system (she had run away at age 15), one of my requirements was to make a list of what was acceptable and unacceptable in my home. She had to sign it, and I was encouraged to have a clause in there that clearly stated that I had the right to change, or add to that list at any given moment.

Your recovery is shining through, and I applaud you for adding another boundary for your own sanity.
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