Hello PF, When we let go and let God, miracles can and do happen. The hardest part of that process is the TRUST that you can let go and the earth will keep turning. You will keep breathing and your loved one will keep doing what they will do UNTIL they choose. I hold strong hope since my son was MIA for over 4 months (I had no idea where he was or what he was doing!) and he finally surrendered (literally!) and is now realizing the utter mess of a life he chose for himself. God is so much bigger and better at this that we are LOL.
Have faith, let him go and let him choose. This site is full of success stories of other Momma's who came to this place of release.
Hugs,
Teresa