Well, at this point he's not going anyway so it's a moot point. I didn't really expect him to go, I think it's too early in his disease (for him). I did say, "Hey, I'm chairing my meeting on Thursday so I wanted to make sure you'd be around. Don't know what your meeting schedule looks like." He didn't respond to the second part of my statement, he just said he'd be home.
And, this is why I'm so glad that I'm still going to my meetings and working with my sponsor and finding time for stuff for ME. I need it now more than ever!