Welcome ntr and trikuza
Welcome to you too SilentScout - thanks to Gig for that link - I know you'll find a lot of support down there too...
Just in case you peek back in here...I can't speak for all alcoholics...but I was determined to make a better man of myself when I got into recovery.
If, for whatever reason life with your boyfriend isn't what you want it to be - and it seems to me from your post your bf is showing not signs of wanting to change - I'd encourage you to think deeply about your future.
If you think you deserve better, I'd assert you probably do
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