Originally Posted by
wantabe 
To paraphrase something I read awhile ago that has really made me think about the whole in sickness and in health vow:
Quote:
Would you leave if spouse had cancer?
I would if he kept going to the store to buy more cancer.
Fantastic retort to those who are judgmental of those who choose to leave their A spouses. I don't think anyone should judge another for leaving a relationship with an alcoholic. It's abusive on so many levels - at the very least, emotionally and psychologically.