Originally Posted by
Titanic 
The amount of thought and emotion that goes into "which path to take," and the decision of whether or not to get another, expert "view," are also individual choices. But that doesn't mean that "travel guides" or "tour guides" aren't useful in making those choices.
Well, that all sounds good--in theory. But, the honest truth is, divorce was an absolute last resort for me. I didn't want one, didn't even want to consider one, until there were just no other choices left. I tried every which way I could, and finally I
just couldn't take it any longer.
It wasn't like I sat down and said, okay I have option A and option B, which one is best? I had exhausted all my other options and I was fast becoming someone I didn't like very much. It was the most agonizing, painful decision I ever had to make. And I wouldn't have made it if I could possibly see another way that didn't involve my destruction.
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