And, BTW, I am by no means suggesting here that there should be some certification, test, religious or other requirement, or "toll booth" that one MUST pass before taking the divorce detour.
The amount of thought and emotion that goes into "which path to take," and the decision of whether or not to get another, expert "view," are also individual choices. But that doesn't mean that "travel guides" or "tour guides" aren't useful in making those choices.