I have only been on SR for a day and a half and have gained such insight. Your decision has empowered me to stick to mine. Take care of yourself...and hold onto hope. My 19 yr old AD starts day 1 of 28 today, and I am scared as hell that she is there because I gave her ultimatum...DO 28 days or do not come home! I am going to think positively...going to Alanon meeting (my first) at noon then bringing her bags to her.
Stay Strong...and thank you