Originally Posted by
Milly39 
Liz...you can still keep your expectations low until you see change...but I know how hard it is to stand back and let them deal with the recovery themselves.
In the meantime you can focus on you...am sure your AH doesn't ask you how your recovery is going?
LOL! Yeah, he didn't like the fact that I was in Al Anon so he didn't ask EVER, except to ask me if he needed to stay home with our son while I went to meetings. And, that's part of it too. I need to know if he's planning on going to meetings on certain nights so I can find an AlaTeen meeting for our son or maybe find another meeting for myself if needed. His options with AA meetings are 3 times what's available to me for Al Anon. I guess I would find it courteous to know when he's going so I can plan the family schedule around his availability, etc. Maybe that's asking for too much at this point?