Same page here as well! Once I started taking care of myself I could be clearer seeing the difference between people giving life lip service and those actually living it! Don't know how many times in the past I read past the concept that Actions are what count not words. As soon as I actually heard that and took it on board things changed dramatically in my approach.
I also realized I have no tolerance at all for meanness!
I have cleared out several toxic relationships and steer clear of those unwilling to act. Was telling someone the other day that I hope the clearing out is done....I really like the people I have in my life now and want to keep them!
Thanks for your post.....