ANL, congrats on 10 days!
As the wife of a man addicted to porn (and an addict myself: to narcotics) trust does take time to rebuild. I still don't have 100% trust that my husband is honest with me. You're doing the right thing in remaining sober, even if she doesn't quite trust you enough to come back home. I know it's really hard, I have a hard time being away from my kids, too.
Congrats, and keep up the good fight!