It's not wimpy or snobby. I still can go to our little local bar, as it's a neighborhood place and all my friends are there. I just don't stay very long, not because I want to drink (although sometimes I do) but more because I'm bored with the whole scene. The jokes aren't funny if you're sober, it's a whole different thing. I can understand you wanting to stay home and just relax when you're doing well in your recovery. It's going to be an adjustment for your husband, but hopefully he'll come around and be supportive.