Originally Posted by
Titanic 
He's in early recovery, 2 months sober. Marital counseling is not effective and even contra-indicated in early recovery and during active alcoholism.
I haven't seen this thread you mentioned but what you're saying here isn't 100% true. While it is true that many marriages don't make it through something like this, many do. Please don't say as an absolute that marital counseling is not effective .... Please share your experience.
BTW, 2 months sober is not active alcoholism.