Originally Posted by Confetti

Good thread...I have been trying to see the damage that this has done to my small children from their point of view....And am trying to make corrections and assure the. That their thoughts do matter, no matter how small it may seem.

I am not worthy of love unless I do as I am told.
It is not right to have my own opinions.
My wants are not as important as other peoples.
Money equals love.
Things are more important than thoughts and feelings.