Originally Posted by Thumper

Yes it does get easier. I used the hula hoop imagery a lot in the beginning. Picture those hoops. Are his plates and salt/pepper in his hoop or yours? His! Then I would force myself to see something that was in my hoop and try and keep my focus on that. If he has a tantrum over something is that tantrum in his hoop or yours? His! Stay the heck out of his hoop. It is unhealthy, disrespectful, dangerous, and conceited to go mucking around in other people's hoops!