NYC,
Please don't take this as a defensive question - it is not. I am genuinely curious if you saw something in my post that pointed to me being in denial. I have not been looking at my situation as a problem of being in denial - what do you think I'm in denial about?
I've had many light bulb moments on this forum - and I don't want to miss one if you see something I should be taking into account.
You could just be speaking generally of codepency and not my post specifically. Just wanted to follow-up on your thought.
Thank you Hydrogirl, Thumper and Dollydo. You are like road signs giving me direction and good perspective.
MamaKit