Originally Posted by
cynical one 
Because unless we have done a whole lot of hard work on ourselves and have arrived at acceptance it WILL show on our faces...the sadness, the anger, the dissapointment, the disgust, the resentment, the martyr...and who the heck would want to look at that?
Isnt' that the truth - and even though I have come so far in my recovery - I know I would still wear the face of sadness!!!! Sounds like I am truly the 'burning martyr - but I can honestly say I have never judged H. Just thanked God I am not an addict.....