Originally Posted by
outtolunch 
Birds of a feather flock together and all that.
Another question to ponder is why we codependents allow some people to treat us like carp and come back for more?
Hey Outtolunch I always value your 'unsugar coated' feedback!! But you are so right. But isn't this the point of SR?? I can honestly say that if it were not for SR (I only joined in June) - that I would have gone back for more. More what?? Abuse!! And even more abuse!! Not (well for me) in the physical sense but emotional! And then kept going back for more. The cycle of H with me and his addiction lasted 4 years or so (well that is what I think - but looking back on his behaviour he could have been using for much longer than I knew)....
God knows - but truly I have come such a long way with SR - and have managed to 'step off' the wheel of recovery - active addiction - recovery - active addiction....
But still tough!