I do not want to keep belaboring this so I promise this will be my last post on the topic.
If you go to a domestic violence center they will not take your daughter. They help you get yourself and your daughter - together to a safe home of your own.
You have to take that first step and call for that to be set into motion though. It is a way out when you are ready. Keep reading and keep posting. It is scary to take steps into the unknown and to shine lights on reality. We find some sort of comfort in what we know and sometimes things slowly evolve and we don't have a sense of how far they have gone. From my point of view - your living room seems like a very scary place. He is very unstable. You and your daughter deserve safety and peace and relief and he is taking that away from you.