Lynn, I'm with Dee on this one.
Don't worry about what your boyfriends reads right now. Just focus on you and your recovery. My husband didn't want to talk about recovery when I began and he still doesn't. I desperately wanted him to understand what I was going through and he just had no interest. It didn't mean he didn't love me, but he believed (rightly so) that I needed to work on myself. And, that's what saved me and what saved our marriage.