Left ABF! I have a new life! Now what?
I just moved away from ABF this weekend. I said my last goodbye on Friday morning. I havent called him and he hasnt called me. When I went back to clean our old place, I left him a note outlining what I did and what still needed to be done. I didnt email or text him because I didnt want to start a train of communication.
My new apartment is beautiful. I have a group of wonderful friends that helped me move this weekend that I am eternally grateful for. I know I made the right decision. However, I just feel sad and a bit blah with all the changes. I cant help but feel a bit lonely, especially because this week is my birthday and I know I will miss him.
When will I start to feel happy? I just want to know, for those of you who left, when did you really start to feel relieved and get on with life?
Also, should I still go to al anon even though we are not together anymore? How long is that acceptable?