Good for you!
As for your question: Go to an Al-Anon meeting. Read the stickies at the top of this Forum. Read "Codependent No More" by Melodie Beattie so you'll see how well you're doing (and what to avoid doing) as compared to some of us who have endured and are enduring so much from these relationships with As. Go to an Al-Anon meeting; I can't emphasize that enough because a face-to-face has something special, extra to give you! Peace.