Originally Posted by
Schab33 
He has robbed from all of us and this addiction is just awful. He has never been in a real program I just hope soon he will get it.... [/FONT][/SIZE]
Until an addict experiences the consequences of his/her choices, there is no hope. When we cushion the consequences, we enable addiction. That becomes our role in the whole thing.
Getting out of the addicts way and letting the chips fall where they may, instead of trying to cushion and make it comfortable to stay stuck ,creates opportunity for the addict to consider change. Some will and some will not. We have no control over the outcome.