L2L, I was wondering if you wouldn't mind elaborating more on this? When my STBXAH were first dating, he pursued me like crazy too. I never realized it could be considered aggression till you mentioned it. We got along great, made each other laugh etc. but, Even when I told him I can't handle a serious relationship and explained all my very legitimate reasons, he did not back off; he called me everyday, changed his Facebook to in a relationship with me, etc.
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Learn2Live 
You know, it doesn't matter whether or not you are the one to have done the chasing. Their M.O. is the same as so many hundreds of stories I have read h AXBF pursued me like MAD. He just would not let me be. I've learned from Dr. Simon's book that this is called "Aggression." I never understood it or put this word to his behavior, but once I did, I understood. And now reading about Narcissists, it is beginning to make more sense. It's like a fricking GAME to them, and they don't give a rat's ass who gets hurt.