I have a friend here who's a FFer - she always said 'the addict in my life doesn't get to set the timetable for
my recovery'
It can take time for wounds to heal...we have no control over that Niki.
What's a eternity to us might be a few weeks for our loved ones...all we can do is keep doing the right thing...if people are fair to us, they'll see that change, and who knows? it may help them to decide about trusting us again....
I hope it's not too long for you
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