"I am hoping after a couple weeks without me he will start to hurt enough to want to go to rehab. " Don't count on it. It typuically doesnt work that way. You will soon learn that no person is enough to make someone stop using drugs. It has to be the addicts desire to stop. Period. It has to be their choice. Trust me, it's hard to watch and extremely tough on the ego (why am i not enough for him to want to quit?) Been there, done that. But it just isn't reality when it comes to drugs.