Just a little update- he has been going to tons of meetings lately and he does have a sponsor that I had the pleasure of meeting the other night. He still wants to work on things (as do I) and we've gone on some fun dates to relieve some stress and communicate more and just be ourselves. But we are going to put some space between us and only hang out here and there so we can really think about what we want and try to slow this thing down a little. I'm also going to do some research on co-dependency, and he's going to get more involved at his meetings.
I know this isn't going to be easy, but as of now it's worth it for me. We'll see....