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Old 09-09-2012, 03:34 AM
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tanja
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Jeni - Dee and Deserto gave you excellent advice. I read a quote sometime back regarding guilt and it has alway resonated with me. It basically asks "Did you intentionally set out to hurt someone?" Of course you didn't. You are merely trying to make you and your family's life better. Try and keep that in mind and absolve yourself of any guilt you may be feeling.

SoberJaneDoe - God knows I have been where you have been. God bless you for posting about it. That takes great strength, courage and a deep desire to change. I too know that I simply cannot achieve sobriety on my own. It is impossibe. I agree with Dee that we should avail ourselves to any support and tools that we can to help us achieve sobriety.

FP - Congratulations on 120 days7

I got up this a.m. at 5:30 to find my husband drunk from drinking all night. It just served to remind me of the hell of drinking. I am so grateful that I do not feel that way today!

Wishing everyone a happy sober Sunday
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