I am happy to hear you have a plan to move out. You are very wise. I wish you the strength and courage to follow through with your plan, even if it is not perfect . . .otherwise . . .you can see where this is going and it is not fun.
If I could have avoided this nightmare, I would have done anything in my power to have done so. Anyone who "signs up" for this is crazy, from my point-of-view . . .so you are obviously of very sound mind . . .wishing you the best.