Thanks for reminding me that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Going through a rough time now as we try and finalize the divorce and dealing with all the usual entitlement mindset, and my AH's mind that just doesn't think too well, trying to sell 2 houses etc etc. I just have to continue to hang in there and one day it will be over. In North Carolina there is a 1 year separation requirement before divorce can be filed. The one year is up as of today...........I think I might just see a tiny flicker of that light ...........