I always wondered why the rehab my ex was in never asked for my view..
I saw a psychoanalyst for some time who happened to be head of a A rehab centre previously.. he told me " its because no healthy person would be with a A .. simple as that ".. It stung but made me think what in the hell am I doing.
We rationalise, we excuse we do everything but face up to a choice.. either stay and accept the rollacoaster it is or move on ... The only change is from ourselves..
Personally I could not be happier.. to have a new partner thats kind, loving and who I can have a wine with at dinner !
Take care