Originally Posted by
PohsFriend 
Turns out, that something is to sit down, shut up and focus on ensuring that my darling AW has a calm, cool, collected and rational husband to turn to when it gets tough so she can focus on the task in front of her.
Your dedication is admirable, but who do you get to turn to when it gets tough? Don't you deserve a true partner who gives 200% to you, too?