Sacrifice? im in the middle of trying to get my rh out of my home so this may not come out nice.
My husband is in recovery... deep as in quoting the big book, getting spiritual and throwing concepts in my face and telling me i needed more alanon and to work on myself every time we argued. yesterday he was trying to get me an alanon sponsor before he went to go see an escort. this is after he hid and lied about a trip with his old using friends . so sacrifice? since at this point he won't admit he's done anything wrong and now he has recovery concepts he twists to justify it.... itvery vertically not sacrificed to stay with him...its insanity and a wholesale destruction of my self respect....even sober they can be very very sick.