Originally Posted by
oneday66 
Any experience will be greatly appreciated...
Im out of the country on vacation...coming home on Thursday... my recovering husband is in my house.... based on certain lying/hiding behaviors..(and he's cheated on me both using and sober) I've decided I've had enough and i want him gone...out of my home and my life....
He's been living with me since he got clean (100 days).
I rent... but he is not on the lease.... i live in a big building so nobody has noticed.
I only have access to email and internet until i come back... I've emailed him and asked him to be gone when i return and that i will call the cops if he is there.
I will have family with me to support me. can he stay because we are married? he has been violent before (usually physical intimidation) and laid his hands on me twice. im sorry im so confused. 5 years of my life down the crapper but not a second more.
i am sorry to read of your predicament, but also glad to read of your actions to get out of it.
you may want to contact the building manager/owner and explain the situation. they should know the laws of the state and what ya have to legally do to get him out.