Thanks,
My BF never gave me the ultimatum, but he did get pissed about my drinking sometimes. Part of the reason I quit was for him, but mainly for me. It was my time.
LOL, member that movie with Dave Chappelle where he tosses that dubie off the pier. Not to make light of it at all, but when you said that part of the reason you quit was for your girl, that popped into my mind. I think it is good to have some humor in this mess.
Take care,
MC