Not judging you, Android. Your values are YOUR values and I live and let live. I'm just pointing out that you are moving quickly from one relationship to another, which is exactly what I did before I got into recovery myself. It's not healthy.
Examine your values. What do YOU feel about your marriage vows? Do not look at anyone else's behavior; look only at your own. You see, when our decisions and behaviors go in direct opposition to our values, we hurt ourselves. We may be oblivious to what we are doing, or we may feel that our behavior is justified because someone else is doing the same thing, or we may feel we "deserve" what we want. But if we are not conscious of our own values and what we are doing, even if we NEED to have fun very badly, we degrade ourselves to ourselves, and that hurts our own self-esteem. Honor yourself, honor your values, your commitments, and protect your own integrity.