TJP, I also ignored the call from JJ yesterday. he is in medical isolation and of course when he couldn't reach me, he called his brother. To be honest, I was at a party and I had some wine. I do not want to talk to JJ if I am not sober. I believe it is just fine to take a break from our addicts ESPECIALLY when they just want to get something from us.
I love the fact that I can email JJ daily and he has access to sending us a letter once or twice a week with the stamps provided to him.
I also don't really have anything to say to JJ right now either, he is detoxing hitting the bottom (at least I hope) and needs that utter desolation and helplessness for the chance of his choosing a different path.