Pigtails, congrats on your sobriety and good luck to you. I am sorry about your miscarriage.I think because you are going thru the struggle yourself, you know that you cannot make your boyfriend stop drinking, nobody can, he has to want it for himself. It's very possible he could drink every night once you have a child, so you would have to decide if that is behavior you could live with. Keep posting and venting here, it helps!