He is not in recovery. His addict brain is controlling everything he says and does and feels and thinks.
When he calls you, he is drug-seeking.
You have nothing he wants right now, if you are not willing to be his enabler and supplier to feed the disease that controls him.
Leave him be. Pray someone behind bars is in AA.
God has a part in this. Step out of the way.
I hope you sleep well tonight. We have had a full moon and it exaggerates everything. Let it wane a bit. And turn everything over.