Since you've tried lots of different things and your husband remained in the home using and abusing drugs, do something different when he gets out of jail. Insist that he live outside the home in a sober recovery facility for several months, perhaps a year, to prove he can stay clean and sober. You don't have to live with him while he proves himself to you. You can still get together as a family. Your husband will need help learning how to live a substance free life and he can better learn these skills away from home. Otherwise, you are likely to re-experience the past. Let him do the work on his own of getting his life together.