Originally Posted by
Learn2Live 
Honestly, I cannot believe the therapist would actually support this. What this is doing is BLAMING you for the problems in the relationship, which is complete BS.
Yes, you chose an alcoholic, and that is YOUR issue to work out in YOUR therapy. Not in joint therapy. Ridiculous.
See, this is what I thought too. I am thinking of finding a new therapist if I don't get good clarification from this guy tomorrow. I mean, he specializes in addictions counseling and marriage counseling. Maybe I just picked the wrong one?