Originally Posted by
Cyranoak 
"...She didn't listen, turned everything around and said that I need to straighten out my life and fix everything that's wrong with me and not worry about her. "
P.s. Counseling does not help unless they are sober. They just lie and deflect accountability. In my opinion it just makes things worse.
She only starts drinking after child goes to bed. Or, in the case of the last week, not drinking at all.
I'm not liking the tension and the PO'd attitude she has for me right now, but at least I know what to expect -as opposed to when she's been drinking.