It seems the "why" has been rather well answered.
And Finally, I think you pretty-much answered it in your original post.
Looking at it from a different perspective, I've discovered that the "right person" for me needs to be able to forgive some lying....and I need to forgive her lying. I had this vision that one day I'd find someone I'd NEVER ever EVER lie to. Hasn't happened yet. Maybe someday I'll get there.....dunno. Until then, I'll take someone who's forgiving over someone who's not.
