Originally Posted by
EnglishGarden 
CentralOhio,
A very helpful thread for you is in the "Best Of Sober Recovery" forum (the last of the forums listed on the opening page of this site).
It is a thread titled "Addictive Personality" and can be found on page 2 of the "Best of Sober Recovery." You will see much of your situation mirrored there.
Read that this morning - very good information, I've added it to my "Favorites" so that I can refer back to it later and let more of it sink in.
Thank you
And yes, I know that I also need help in dealing with everything that's going on, and I will get that help. But, if we can get Wife's issues out in the open and start working on them, that will hopefully (through time) create a better family dynamic - and in turn a much better environment for raising our son.