I want to be sober above all. I feel great when I'm sober. I know I can deal with the stress of everything else while I am. Its not all about my husband but he sure is a huge part of my life.
I do know where that meeting location is. Its actually right down the street. I went to an open one there a few weeks ago and felt terribly out of place. Ill try the womans and see!
Thank you all for your support.